Read and see if you are a good friend
8 important things you must know, to be a true friend....
1.LISTEN
You may give great advice and there will be times when someone will ask for it. But many times someone just needs a friend whom they can talk to and share their thoughts and fears.
2.HONESTY
It is nearly impossible to be friends with someone who is not truthworthy. Additionaly, a good friend will call someone out and tell them the truth when they need to hear it. Noted: Its much better received when it is done in a lovin and thoughtful way.
3.UNCONDITIONAL
Friends should know through your actions that you will be there for them through their highest highs and more importantly, through their lowest lows when they need you the most.
4.AUTHENTICITY
Its very difficult to develope a close relationship with someone who is always talking about how great things and how wonderful their life is...no one has the perfect life. People are drawn to those they can relate and connect with those who also feel comfortable sharing some of their own fears and vulnerabilities.
5.TIME
It doesnt matter if it is on phone or in person. Do you make time for your close friends?
6.EMPATHY
Making a sincere effort to try and understand where a friend is coming from or what they are going through is a true demonstration of compassion...especially when they know that you dont necessarily agree.
7.ENCOURAGEMENT
We could all use a cheerleader who will stand by our side and give us encouragement when others say it "cant be done" or "its not a good idea."
8.GENEROSITY
When a good friend calls you and says they need your help, the response you can give them is "sure, how can i help you?" It shouldnt be "what now?" or "why?" or "tell me, what you want first."
SO, ARE YOU A TRUE FRIEND?
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