This page is dedicated to knowing importance of praying for our mate, and offers 10 ways in how we can do this.
1. Yourself: Pray that you'll be the best spouse you can be. Ask forgiveness for those times you've been selfish or insensitive. Focus on loving your partner more, always treating her/him with courtesy and compassion. Pray that you'll change any negative or neglectful attitude. As we improve our words and behavior, we pave the way for our spouse to make similar changes.
2. Your marriage: Pray that the two of you will find a oneness that will bring you closer. One that is Christ centered, will always abound and stand on a firm foundation. Pray that you both will make your marriage a priority, committing time to understanding each other and placing your spouse's needs above your own.
3. Safety: Pray for your spouse's safety and for God's protection over them.
4. Health: Many of us try to eat healthy, exercise regularly, take vitamins daily, and visit a physician when needed. These things are good, but prayer is better and has more potential power than all four combined. Pray for your partner's health and strength. Pray that her/his body will be able to fight minor illnesses and major diseases and that her/his life will be long and free from sickness.
5. Stress: Life is full of pressure and expectations. We race from one point to another, trying to pack more into a day than is reasonable. This stress frequently steals our peace and enjoyment. It makes us irritable and impatient. It opens doors to worry, depression, burnout, and all sorts of physical symptoms. Pray that your spouse will not be overwhelmed by the stress of life. Pray that she/he will relax and find contentment in all they do. "Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." -Phil 4:6-7
6. Temptations: We're all tempted to do things that aren't good for us or our marriage. Some people face such strong temptations that they have what are called addictive personalities. Others have less potent but equally dangerous temptations. Given the right situation, any of us could succumb. Know your partner's weaknesses and struggles - whether it's alcohol, food, pornography, overspending, drugs, gambling, or anything else. Bind the enemy in the name of Jesus, claim your victory in Christ, keep praying for your mate's strength to fight against these things and for their victory over them.
7. Work: Pray that your spouse will find a balance in her/his work. Pray that it will bring them a sense of fulfillment. Our jobs, whether they're inside or outside the home, impact how we feel about ourselves and even our marriages. Pray that your spouse's job will be a positive part of her/his life, filling them with a sense of meaning, purpose, and personal satisfaction. Remember, "whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men; knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ." ~Col 3:23-24 With this kind of attitude any kind of work we do will always find meaning, purpose, and satisfaction.
8. Fears: Fears can be overwhelming, and maybe even irrational. Maybe they have a fear of safety, traveling, finances, failures in the past, whatever they may be, pray that these fears won't paralyze your spouse, but that he/she can work through them and overcome them. (*Is 12:2) Pray that you can be patient and understanding, doing all you can to help and bring comfort. Never ridicule or belittle your spouse for his/her fears. Be a constant source of reassurance and support.
9. Dreams and Goals: Every couple and all individuals need to have a dream/goal. Without them, people can grow discouraged. Dreams/goals add focus, excitement, joy, and hope especially the ones we do for the LORD. Share your dreams/goals with each other and pray that your partner's dreams/goals will come true. Remember to encourage and cheer them on.
10. Faith: As you pray for your partner's faith, you are, in fact, praying for all of the previous nine areas. Faith impacts every aspect of a person's life. These are but a few things we can pray for our spouse, please remember the importance of praying for them, and being a constant source of encouragement. May your lives be blessed with hope, joy, devotion, and a love that grows day by day, in Jesus' name, Amen. The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man/woman availeth much. -James 5:16
