question: When I get an erection my foreskin still covers the head of my penis. I can pull it back but it bunches up behind the head and not down the shaft like I see in porn movies. When soft it can be pulled all the way down the shaft so cleaning is not normally a problem. When I masturbate, I hardly ever retract the skin and leave the foreskin in place with around a third of the head showing. Is this a common problem and will it cause a problem having sex?
Advisor answers: This is surprisingly common and is called phimosis. It is not something that you should be worried about, but I would discuss it with your doctor. Estimates suggest that 10% of 16 year olds have it, but most find it disappears by the time they're 18. Make sure you pay a lot of attention to hygiene and ensure that you are clean under the foreskin to prevent infection and irritation. There is some evidence that the chemicals in some brands of bubblebath can cause the foreskin to tighten so don't use any. If the condition persists, your doctor may prescribe a steroid cream which works very well. You should find no problem in having sex. If you do then definitely see a doctor, as the condition is easily treatable.
