Tinnie Winnie
Chander asks this: My boyfriend is the top in our relationship, and I am most certainly the bottom. I really love it, and can't get enough of him inside me. That's the point really, there's not a lot of him! He hasn't got the biggest of dicks, so what positions should we use during sex to make the most of everything he has?
Advisor says: Well it seems that you two sexually are a good match for each other. The average dick is around 5.5" although a lot of bottom guys would prefer something larger than that! One solution is to use dildos as well - that way you can go as big as you want ;-)
As for having your boyfriend as deep inside you as possible there are some positions that are much better for this than others. They aren't always the positions you see in porn movies as those are often chosen for visual impact on screen rather than the maximum enjoyment of the bottom.
The basic positions such as doggie style (with the bottom guy crouching down) or the bottom guy lying face down with his partner on top or spooning (with both partners lying side by side not facing each other) allow fairly normal amounts of penetration but do not permit deep penetration and do not really stimulate the prostate.
Try lying facing your partner with you both lying down with the bottom guy with his legs wrapped round the top guy. This way you can get deeper penetration and it allows a massage of the prostate as well. Another position that gives deep penetration and full massage of the prostate is with the bottom guy on his back with his legs up high. If you get your legs on the shoulders of the top guy and place a pillow under your pelvis this allows even deeper penetration.
Other positions allowing easy and deep peneration are with both partners standing up or if you are of different heights and that is difficult try having the bottom partner lying face down on a table or on the edge of the bed. There are other positions you can try and as you feel your partner getting deeper and deeper you will get more used to finding positions that work well for you.
