Q: Is it wrong to think about a relative when you masturbate?
- age 15, Iowa

A: It isn't wrong to think of anything in particular. That's fantasy. As long as you understand the difference between fantasy and reality — in other words, as long as you don't try to act out fantasies that shouldn't be acted upon — you should feel free to take your fantasy life as far as it pleases you.

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