question:
date: 2007-02-06 13:41:31
My boyfriend & I had many sex encounters but not done anal sex, coz
whenever he tried to fuck me, starting with fingering, I can't bear just,
only finger of him in my ass. He like anal sex & I want to give him that
pleasure. Once we tried with lots of lube, he inserted his cock in my
asshole, but I cant take it for more than 30-40 seconds. I want him to
fuck me without so much pain, how? In my city, dildos are not available.
Please help me.
PNJ
ANS. Hi there i have had a few guys ask me this same question, and have said the same thing.Play with yourself.Get in a bath if you can and when enjoying a good soak ,soap your finger and insert it,then 2.3.last but not least 4,now take your time,and you will enjoy your b'friends cock. Please make sure your nails are ot long and sharp,if so put on rubber glove.
Improvise. There must be something you can play with yourself with. Even a
banana or a cucumber ?
You need to spend some time alone at times inserting your own fingers.
Getting your ass used to one, then more, as you go. You need to be relaxed,
and and at ease, and learn how to relax your hole.
Sometimes 'thinking' it might hurt will make you tense up and then it will
hurt.
Take it slowly and don't pressure yourself.
