From: 0791268488@v. .....
I got hurt. My first time I was used as a one night stand .
A.This happens sometimes, and could very well happen to you again. Try to shake it off, and make one of two choices for the future
1. keep in mind that just because a guy takes you to bed does not mean he cares about you, and try to enjoy having sex anyway
2. be more careful about who you choose to sleep with. Make sure you both have feelings for each other before having sex
If you go to bed with a man when you meet him, just realize that it could be a one night stand, and enjoy if for what is it. Don't let emotions get involved until you know there is a chance he might have feelings for you, or at least has the potential for feelings.
and very important... keep in mind....some guys are just pigs.
good luck, and try to keep your heart in check.
B.You need to develop a good relationship and friendship with a guy, before
you move on to sex, to avoid this sort of thing happening again. Too many
guys are out there just for a quickie, and don't care who they trample on in
the process (as well as the risk of communicable sexual diseases)
Some guys are happy with a quickie, and several one night stands, and don't
want any strings.
Some of us want more.......
