From: dav3_6622@y. ...

hi..... i have a chating friend,he wanted me to make love with him.... but i am only 16... and he is 24..so,i'm still underage... so can i play with he?? and will that have any harmful if we suck each other cock's cum????



A.it will not be harmful if you suck each other and take each other's cum, but you should not be having sex with a 24 year old man, and more important, HE SHOULD NOT BE HAVING SEX WITH YOU!

your best bet is to find somebody your own age, and be careful.

B.You can't harm each other in any physical way but legally it could be very wrong for him.

There's no difference between the ejaculate of a 16 year old to a 24 year old and it certainly won't do you any harm (unless he has any sexually transmitted disease at all !!)

C.No, don't get involved in any sexual activity until
you have reached a proper age ( between 19-21
depending on your background).

Since you are only 16, your body is still evolving and
growing, and any sexual activity during a growing age
can affect they way you grow/your health and your body
structure

D.Bret <bretr4@yahoo. com> wrote:
Sorry, but those are old wive's tales. Just like telling him that masturbating can give him pimples or hair on his palms. Being sexually active at 16 is NOT physically harmful in anyway, aside from the risk of sexually transmitted diseases.

There IS an emotional risk with being sexually active with someone that much older and that is why the laws are in place. If HE feels he is ready to begin exploring his sexuality with others, it should be with young men closer to his own age, say 15-17. And he should take things slowly.

But PLEASE do not spread such mis-truths to young people. Life is scary enough without feeding them that kind of rubbish.

Bret

E.ohhh gosh.....
how correct you are Bret!! When i read his (hate you forever Bravo <loveisbullshit) mail....I instantly wanted to reply! being GAY is ONE BIG confusion in young minds and then on top of that such bullshit replies will make them go ga ga....! Moderator actually should take an ACTIVE part in screening such WORTHLESS and NO GOOD mails instantly!

F.delhigyy@yahoo. com> wrote:

I may be incorrect, but I would say what I have seen among gay guys. People who have involved in too many one night stands from a very young age seem to have problems in developing a long lasting love-relationship. (This seems to be true even for the hetrosexuals) . Whereas those who have lesser casual sex, have strong relationships.
Why not to advise the guy to make gay friends first and then gradually explore sex as it comes.(Instead of looking for sex and then making friends).

Somu

G.Somu, I would not disagree with you in the least. The teenage years are difficult for ALL kids, gay and straight. And there are entire books on the subject of sexuality and teens. I've had the pleasure of having MANY MANY friends this age with MANY different stories. One thing they've ALL had in common is that they were sexually active to varying degrees. Yes, ideally they would all have a boy friend or girl friend, but that's not reality. And it IS tougher for gay teens as they often cannot be open about their sexual orientation. That's where they get taken advantage of. Faced with secret frustration, they take advantage of whatever they can get and often wind up getting hurt in the process....physical ly and emotionally.

My point was just that. Things are confusing enough without advice that has no basis in fact. Sex, in and of itself, will not alter your physical being. My advice to this young man, without knowing more about his circumstances, maturity level, etc., is not to get physically involved with this chat friend. Better safe than sorry. He should find other guys his own age and take things VERY slow, not jump in and have all kinds of sex partners. As he matures and his pool of experiences grows he will be ready to make those kinds of decisions on his own.

And in the end, he'll have to make his own choices, despite all the advice in the world.

Bret

E.Bret, I like the way you explained it. Many youngsters
don't have much knowledge about sexual health and
often get sexually abused by older people.

There are many older men out there who are just
looking for these young guys. The sexual dieases can
ruin rest of your life. I would recommend the young
fellow to learn about sexualty, be safe and hangout
with his age group.

Like you said it is better to be safe than sorry. Many
people make better decisions of life once they have
reached a mature age. I am not saying one should stay
virgin forever. But one should definitely learn about
sexuality and how to keep yourself and your partner
safe from the sexual dieases. You don't want to ruin
your sex life for rest of your life. Sex is a great
feeling but in only last a few moments. If you don't
do it properly you may regret rest of your life. One
bad experience is more than enough!
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