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PARENTING - openhearts



PARENTING
COMMUNICATION SKILLS.
gosier - PARENTING Newest pictures Man Woman Ebony
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LISTEN CAREFULY
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THERE IS NOTHING THAT MAKES A PERSON FEEL MORE CARED ABOUT THAN TO BE LISTENED TO SHOWING INTEREST & NON JUDGEMENT,LISTEN WITH RESPECT SO THAT THERE CAN BE A GOOD COMMUNICATION SKILLS & TO AVOID MISTAKES.
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GOOD COMMUNICATION
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(1)IMPORTANT WAY TO MAKE YOUR TEENAGER TO LISTEN TO YOU IS TO LISTEN TO HIM/HER.

(2)SHOW INTEREST IN HIS/HER FEELINGS & OPINIONS EVEN WHEN YOU DISAGREE,THIS HELP TO BUILD MUTUAL RESPECT.

(3)GIVE CLEAR MESSAGES,EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS & NEEDS DIRECTLY.(i feel hurt my child when you are not honest with me,on a low tone)HE/SHE REALIZE HOW THEIR BEHAVIOR AFFECTS YOU.

(4)STOP SWEARING
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COMMUNICATION BARRIER
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TWO TYPES
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LABELING
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ITS A COMMUNICATION WHERE BY A PARENT SHOWS ANGRY FACES & APPLAY HUSH WORDS LIKE WHAT DO YOU KNOW?WITH LOUD SCARY VOICE.
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BELITTLING

ITS A COMMUNICATION WHERE BY A PARENT VOICE IS HIGH AN INCLUDE WORDS LIKE YOU ARE JUST A KID & A DISAPPOINTMENT TO ME.
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COMMAND

ODARING,PRESCRIBING LECTURING,DO IT'CAUSE I SAID SO,STOP FEELING SORRY FOR YOURSELF.LOT OF NOISE,ANGER,DRASTRATION,FRIGHTENING...AT THE END OF THE DAY ON ONE LISTENED.

CONTROL

YOU TAKE THE CONVERSATION BALL & RUN WITH IT,SILENCING EVERYONE ELSE,SO THAT THERE MUST BE UNDERSTANDING.

MIX MASSAGES

THIS CAN BE ENCOURAGED WITH NEGATIVE UNDERTONE,SAYING YOU HAVE SO MUCH POTENTIAL.MAY SOUNDS LIKE YOURE NOTHING SPECIAL RIGHT NOW.
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15 BASIC TIP ON TEENS
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(1)LET YOUR TEEN KNOW YOU ARE WILLING TO JUST PLAIN LISTEN TO THEIR IDEAS WITHOUT MAKING ANY JUDGEMENT.

(2)BE ACCESSIBLE SO YOUR TEEN COULD FEEL FREE TO COME TALK TO YOU.

(3)USE QUESTIONS SPARINGLY.RESIST THE URGE TO KNOW EVERYTHING'CAUSE YOUR TEEN IS PLANNING & THINKING,SHOW SOME TRUST.

(4)GIVE STRAIGHT FORWARD ADVICE ON IMPORTANT ISSUES SUCH AS SEX,DRINKING,SMOKING,DRUGS ETC.

(5)TRY NOT TO BE DEFENSIVE WHEN THEY MAKE CRITICAL REMARKS.

(6)CUT OUT THE BORING LECTURES OF HOW YOU WHERE RAISED.

(7)TALK ABOUT YOURSELF SOMETIMES INSTEAD OF THE TEEN,THEY HATE TO BE ONLY TOPIC UNDER DISCUSSION.

(8)ON FAMILY MEETING GET INPUT FROM EACH PERSON ON RULES AS WELL AS THE CONSEQUENCES OF BREAKING THEM.

(9)GIVE LOTS OF PRAYS & POSITIVE FEEDBACK TO THE TEEN WHEN HE/SHE DOES GOOD THING.

(10)SHOW INTIMACY,TEENS ARE STILL KIDS INSIDE,THEY NEED THE WARMTH FEELING OF BELONGINGS THAT COMES FROM GOOD TOUCHES & HUGS.

(11)TEACH THEM TO MAKE DECISION & MAKE THEM ACCEPT THE CONSEQUENCES OF EACH CHOICE THEY MAKE.

(12)GIVE THEM RESPONSIBILITY WITH EVERY PRIVILEGE THATS REAL LIFE.


(13)TAKE TIME TO RELAX & HAVE FUN SO AS TEENS SHOULD LEARN POSITIVE WAYS TO MANAGE STRESS.


(14)TEACH THEM TO DEAL WITH THE INFORMATION,AS WELL AS HOW TO POST OUT & PRIORITIZE THE INFORMATION,


(15)MAKE THEM EARN WHAT THEY WANT & KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WANTS & NEEDS.
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GOOD PARENTING
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TRY BREAKING THESE BAD EMOTIONAL HABITS,JUST BY BEING THERE FOR YOUR CHILD & LISTENING WITH EMPATHY & LOVE WILL BREAK DOWN THESE BARRIERS.
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