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10 ESSENTIAL FLIRTING MOVES
THAT A MAN MUST KNOW
These are critical if you are to get
out of the "FRIEND" zone and into
the "POTENTIAL LOVER" category
with any woman:
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LESSON #1 SMÌLING: You must
smile :)) You probably think you
smile now, but you don't, really,
You should practice your smile in
the mirror--to be big enough to be
noticed, your smile will probably
have to be bigger than you are
used to..
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LESSON#2 GETTING CAUGHT
LOOKING: Most people look away
when the object of their desire
looks at them. If you want to let
that person know you are
interested, when she catches you
looking, smile, hold eye contact a
moment longer, then look away...
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LESSON#3 WAVING: A little wave
to someone who caught you
looking, along with a smile, is a
non-intrusite, very flirty way to
say "HÈ££Ö..."
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LESSON#4 WINKING: You can wink
at someone during a
conversation.If she says
something funny, or someone else
does something silly, you can give
a wink as a way of sharing a little
moment for just the two of you,
as if the two of you are in on
some private joke no one else is
aware of....
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LESSON#5 ASKING "WHAT THE
STORY BEHIND THAT?? " You can
ask "what the story behind that?"
about any special or unusual thing
your quarry is wearing or
carrying. Examples: "that's" really
neat bracelet you are wearing.
What's the story behind that?" or
"That's a really great briefcase.
What's the story behind
that?"Even if there isn't much of
one, it's given you some
conversation...
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LESSON#6 HOLDING EYE CONTACT:
While you are conversing with
her, you want to be sure to have
eye contact at least some of the
time. At least once it's a good idea
to hold the eye contact a little
"too long," just a fraction too long,
so there's a brief, more intimate
moment between you!!!
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LESSON#7 NON-INTRUSIVE
TOUCHING: This can be as simple as
placing your hand lightly on her
hand for a moment, or touching
her back for a moment as you
walk to a table to sit down.Just do
this a couple of times on the first
flirting interaction--if she pulls
away, dòn't do it again...
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LESSON#8 CHECKING HER OUT:
Checking out her body must be
done properly. The goal is for
your new friend to feel
complimented that you noticed
her body, not objectified like
some piece of meat. You do this
by making eye contact, then
quickly, in less than a second,
passing your eyes down and then
up over her body, then back to
looking in the eyes. It should be
unashamed of taking a glance.
Just don't do it too often...
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LESSON#9 USING THE "GOOD-BYE
COMPLIMENT:" If you are shy,
flirting with the "good-bye
compliment" may be just the thing
you need. On your way out, you
simply go up to the woman you
want to flirt with, and say
something like, "Hi, I have to go
now, but before I did, I really
wanted to let you know that you
have a really great sense of style,
and that I noticed it. I wish I had
more time to spend with you, but
I have to go." Then leave. This
allows you to build your
confidence in approaching
women, without having to take
the risk of rejection-- after all, you
have to leave, you couldn't stay
even if they wanted you to!
(Some men also ask for phone
numbers at this point.)
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