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10.hard to cum
QUESTION: I'm 23 and recently discovered that, for some unknown reason, I can't cum! I've never had this problem before but a few days ago, I was jerking off with a friend and it wasn't long before he blew but no matter how hard I tried, or how hard he sucked or how furiously he pulled, I couldn't cum! It's not that this guy didn't turn me on, far from it. Do have any idea what the problem could be? I don't do drugs, nor do I smoke and rarely drink. I'm too embarrassed to talk to my doctor, what should I do?

ANSWER: One of the main reasons that sometimes it's hard to cum is because you think too hard about it and the more you think about it the harder it gets, so to speak! This is called performance anxiety and is the number one cause of sexual problems in men. Even one 'off day' can lead to a lot of thinking about why such problems existed and this can actually make problems get even bigger by worrying about the next time and this can lead to an escalating spiral.

The best thing you could do is put it down to a bad day and forget about it. Try ejaculating in a different location or with a different person next time - often a new partner is more sexually stimulating as well.

Aatish, you do mention that you hadn't taken drugs, alcohol or smoked and it is worth remembering that these can all affect the ability to get an erection or ejaculate. If you continue to have problems with ejaculating then think about seeing your doctor as there may be an underlying cause such as a sexually transmitted infection.



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