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17.Active & Passive Bottoms | gaysexadvice


17.Active & Passive Bottoms
Active & Passive Bottoms




Jon needs some advice: My best friend, who I've never slept with, keeps going on about being an Active Bottom. He makes fun of me (also a bottom), and says he bets I just lie there and take it. Trouble is, I do !!! What is an Active Bottom? What exactly is he doing (blow by blow please) that I'm not ... and don't say ask him - he'd never let me live it down! Thanx.


Advisor answers: The term active bottom refers to a guy who is passive but who participates more in sex than just lying there while being fucked. Some guys really enjoy lying down and being fucked without really moving or interecting much with their partner.

An active bottom on other hand would participate much more by interacting with the active top. There are different ways of being an active bottom. It can work more internally with the bottom guy clenching the muscles inside the anus (called the sphincter muscles). If you don't know how to control these muscles try going for a pee and then clench the muscles in your ass and it will stop you peeing.

Once you have done this you practice clenching them while not going for a pee. Then while having sex you can be more active as a bottom by clenching your anal muscles. Be cafeful though as some guys who have great control over their sphincter muscles can hurt the active guy if they squeeze too tight. If you are bottom then it is important to practice keeping your anal muscles toned - as with any muscle in the body if you dont use them, they become less strong!

As an active bottom you can also play a role in the positions you use with your partner. You can move him into different positions with him still inside you. According to the position and depending on how much movement it permits you, you can also move your ass as your partner fucks you. Moving up and down in time with your partner is very enjoyable as is moving in a circular motion so that his dick massages your prostrate. You can also grab his ass and pull him onto you making him go deeper than he may normally go.

Different positions allow an active bottom to try different things. If the bottom guy is lying on his front face down then he will be able to participate more actively by moving his ass higher in the air and by moving it up and down. If the bottom guy is lying on his back with his legs in the air he can pull the active guy onto him by holding his ass.

Certain positions also allow the bottom much more control. By having the active guy lying on the bed face up with the passive partner riding on top of him the top has less control leaving you as a bottom to play a more active role in going up and down on your partner. Practise being an active bottom and you will enjoy sex more, as will your partner!


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