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12.FELLATIO TECHNIQUES | gaysexguide


12.FELLATIO TECHNIQUES
FELLATIO TECHNIQUES TO EXPLORE

I'd like to list a few things you can explore during fellatio.
Think of each as a possibility if it seems interesting at some
time and place:

AROUND THE WORLD- This is kissing and licking the body all over. As
I mentioned before, this might end at the crotch, and lead right
into fellatio. If you're moving down his stomach, you can kiss you
way into his crotch, or use a somewhat pointy tongue in flicking
motions within the groove of the crotch, between the thigh and
testicles. You can tongue the scrotum itself, licking and cuddling
his balls with a soft, caressing tongue, and even draw one or both
into the mouth with very light sucking motions or humming (known
as "chewing gum"). From here, you can massage and perineum, the
space between the testicles and anus, and even go on to tongue the
anus also, known as rimming.

If you want to get the penis hard, or just to caress it soft, knead
it with firm lips, or kiss and nibble at it all over, or suck hard
on the crown.

Also, if you make your tongue soft, thick and rounded, you can
cuddle the penis with broad, languorous lapping strokes, caressing
and enveloping it. This is called the Shirley Temple, because it's
like licking a big lollipop or sugar daddy.

You can suck and tongue the top while masturbating the shaft with
your hand, or by rolling the shaft between your two flattened
palms, like rolling dough.

If you want to try something very complex, while you're doing a
rhythmical sliding with side to side motions, draw your tongue to
the back of your mouth and as the penis is sliding in and out,
circle and caress the glans and corona. You must have several free
inches back there to get maneuverability, so don't try this when
your mouth's stuffed full.

There's also an Oriental style for doing the sliding action, where
you move up and down from the waist, like an old washer woman at
the river, instead of from the neck. You must sit on his chest or
between his legs to do this.

If you can handle his penis in your throat, try putting it there
and going through swallowing motions, or shaking your head around
without otherwise moving it. These will give different sensations.

8
BODY POSITIONS DURING FELLATIO

Let me describe a few positions, body arrangements, possible for
two people during fellatio. There are two standard positions that
are easy and satisfying. In both the person being fellated lies
flat on his back. In the first, his partner lies at his side,
facing head to feet. This allows for mutual fondling. In the
second position, the partner sits or lies on his stomach between
his friend's legs, facing him. This gives the fellator more
movement and also puts his tongues against his friend's fraenum
(this may or may not be important).

There are many other positions possible. Some allow mutual genital
stimulation, or more body tension, or body contact. There's a few:

You're sitting, standing, or leaning against a wall or tree trunk.
Your friend kneels in front of you to suck you off. This can be
really fun in the shower.

If you're on your back with your friend kneeling or sitting on your
chest, you can easily reach up to fondle him and adding rimming if
you like.

For an unusual experience, you can be lying upside down in a chair
or car seat, so that your head is down and your knees bent over
the back. Your friend, meanwhile, stands in the back seat and
bends way over on his stomach between your legs.

In general, fellatio can be done with either one of you lying, on
your side, sitting, or standing, in or out of doors. If you want
to go exploring, there are lots of possibilities. Remember that
you aren't restricted to the top of a bed. By using imagination
and hand pieces of furniture, pillows and rocks or trees if in the
forest, you can get into some intriguing and usual experiences. Be
creative and mobile and see what happens.

PROBLEMS

Now I'd like to talk about a few problems that can happen while
you're fellating someone. The first thing is gagging. This is a
spontaneous, unwilled muscular defense of the throat when bumped
against foreign objects. It's just a natural reaction, like
jerking your hand away from fire. But often it's a source of
embarrassment and confusion in one or both partners, during
fellatio, ironically implying the dislike or rejection. You can
control gagging by not going too deep. Also, if you become very
excited, the reflex is not likely to happen. If you're doing mutual
fellatio (sixty-nine) you might have an exciting time and not even
notice that his penis is going way back in your mouth.

Fortunately, the whole gagging reflex will decrease with
experience. If you start out slow and calm, you'll see that it's
not so scary, If you want, gently explore the sensations of his
penis touching the inside and back of your mouth, over time.
Experimenting with depth while doing the slide activity is a good
way Another way to help condition yourself is, while brushing your
teeth, use the back of the toothbrush to explore around in your
mouth. Be playful-try brushing your tongue, moving the brush a
little farther back each time, to see how far down you can go.

Another possible problem is taking semen in your mouth. Cum is a
curious thing. It's taste varies from person to person, mild to
tangy. It's good stuff nutritionally, being mostly protein and
minerals; it's the minerals that give the unique flavor. Take it
or leave it, there's nothing wrong with it, and it can turn out to
be quite a nice treat.

If you want to swallow it without hassle, take the climax deep in
your mouth, and remember, "in each and every case, the faster it
is swallowed, the less time the taste remains." Vomiting, noisy
hawkings, or dashing to the bathroom can be very rude and
demeaning to someone who's just climaxed, so if you don't want to
swallow it, remove it quietly afterwards, into a handy towel or
handkerchief. Or of you like, things can always be switched from
fellatio to masturbation or something else beforehand, but don't
do this too close to orgasm.

A third possible problem is genital odor. All people have a natural
smell. There's little connection between smell and venereal or
other diseases; it's solely a matter of cleanliness. Some people
enjoy a hearty smell, others can't tolerate even the slightest
whiffs. Genital odor is one of the more intimate facts about a
person, and can be the delight and turn-on to the warm closeness
of fellatio. If not, it can often be ignored. Or you can escort
him to the bathroom and wash him yourself.

A fourth possible problem is muscle fatigue. This is to be expected
during fellatio-the mouth can get tired being stuffed full, and
actions of the tongue and neck also take a lot of energy. It's a
natural part of the sex-play pattern, and calls for a change of
pace and/or position. It's probably not such a good idea just to
stop and sit there panting or making nasty comments. If
communication is easy between you can your partner, it will be
understood and OK for each to do what you have to do, without
being an irritant. Sometimes you might get tired just as he's
getting ready to come, since this is a likely time for being
energetic and lively. You can always slow down if it's not too
close to orgasm, or switch to something easier. Also, this problem
will happen less often as you become more used to fellatio, as you
become more confident in yourself and your friend.

The last possible problem is rising fear of even panic as he comes
to orgasm. This can be caused by one or all of the problems I just
mentioned, or just by the force and drive of impending orgasm, or
by your current mood. INexperience or distaste can be big
contributors. You begin to feel like you've lost control, or
something very bad is going to happen, and then the activity
suffers, often at just the wrong moment.

There is a point at which the momentum towards climax is so strong
that it will go ahead even if you slow down, and if you do stop
just before the orgasmic experience may be very second-rate. If
you start to panic at his orgasm, there's not much you can do
about it but maintain as best you can. Afterwards you'd best deal
with it unless you want it to happen again.

The important thing is to feel safe. Part of it is trusting
yourself and your friend. Another part is to know what's coming.
Often the first spurt of semen will trigger the gagging reflex,
and cause panic. Knowing that this might happen and that you can
still continue sucking can keep you from freaking out. For a long
time, I had a lot of trouble panicking before orgasm. Now I feel
much better about it, through trust, experience, and by breaking
down my problem into its parts (gagging, fatigue, etc.) and
dealing with each. Talk about any problems with your partner and
your friends. Just saying what you feel is often very helpful. Ask
them if they experience these things and how they handle them.

Also remember that your current mood has a lot to do with your
experience, and mood can shift a lot through time. One day you
might feel quite happy to eat sperm, and the next thing it's
awful. It's important to respect your mood, and realize that it
may change later.

And also, I'd like to say a word about letting go. In the kind of
fellatio I've been talking about so far, one person is doing
things with his friend's penis, while the other person just lies
back and experiences. If your friend is sucking your penis, he, in
a sense, has control which you, in a sense, have given to him (you
always keep control over your own choices). This sense of not
being in control can be frightening sometimes, the person feeling
like he's losing himself, his power, security. He's not safe. If
you start feeling this way, don't try to force yourself to be
strong: this gives more strength to the fear. Instead, just be
aware-note your fear. And be aware that you've let someone else
stimulate you through his mouth and body. If you don't want this,
don't let it continue; switch to something else. If you do want
it, talking will help. Tell him you feel uneasy. Often it turns
out the person was afraid of coming too soon, or felt like he was
hogging all the attention. Getting upset like this isn't a glaring
fault or a horrible failure, but a part of being human. Problems
are normal ...


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