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65.Doing It - Body scent, erogenous zones and kiss | gaysexguide


65.Doing It - Body scent, erogenous zones and kiss
Doing It - Body scent, erogenous zones and kissing
Each day, the body gets rid of two to three litres of water through two million sweat glands and so it's not surprising that body scents and odours occur naturally. Our natural body scent - often a musky smell on the skin - is an individual fingerprint of who we are. In moderation, it's generally regarded as pleasant and we respond and get turned on by the right scent in others. Body odour is when sweat turns stale - a reaction between fats and proteins in the sweat and bacteria that live on the surface of the skin. Having said that, some men prefer a strong ripe body odour to a less aggressive body scent.

Pheromones are substances released in minute quantities by humans and other animals, to affect behaviour in others of the same species. In humans this seems to be centred around attracting a mate. As to whether gay men can simply differentiate between male and female pheromones or have to re-learn how to recognise male pheromones (once the attraction to other men has been established) is uncertain. However, many of us can smell for ourselves the difference between our day-to-day body scent and what kicks in when we're horny, picking up, and having sex.



Erogenous zones

These are parts of the body - often associated with sex and sensuality - where higher concentrations of nerve endings are located. When these are stroked, rubbed, licked, nibbled, or bitten we can be made to feel very horny. These areas include ears, lips, cock, balls, nipples, armpits, the neck and spine, the soles of our feet, toes and the arsehole. When we get turned on our sense of sight, touch, hearing and smell become sharper, we become more aware of our surroundings and these zones play a major part in our sexual arousal. Everyone's a little different, and other parts of the body, which we might not ordinarily consider sexy, can also become sensitive and highly charged. Knowing whether you or he's hit the mark is usually not difficult: just listen for those sighs, grunts, groans and whimpers.

Kissing

For many of us, kissing another man is a powerful expression of our sexuality and identity. A kiss can signal a beginning or an end, a need or a desire. It can persuade, reassure, tantalise or hurl us into a pit of uncertainty as we wait impatiently for the little bugger to ring. While our kissing technique is as individual as we are, most of us learn directly from others. We can kiss someone virtually anywhere although the mouth is the most common place and the most complex to interpret. For example, does a gentle kiss on the lips say 'I want to... but I'm shy' or 'this is a far as I want to go'? Or, does a aggressive kiss mean 'I'm so fucking horny' or 'I'm taking control.' While different types of kissing usually indicate levels of intimacy, a gentle kiss at the right moment can be as effective as an aggressive open-mouthed kiss with tongues and tonsils. We're invariably communicating what we feel at that moment as well as what we want or desire next. Obviously, kissing is accompanied by other signals, and as we grow more experienced we learn - most the time - to understand what one kiss means in relation to another and what our intentions are when we kiss someone else. Like a longitude and latitude, that first kiss - whether you are in a backroom, bedroom or on a first date - provides a direction in which you can both go, at least in the first instance. Lips and tongues are extremely sensitive so, when you kiss, remember to receive, absorb and enjoy his attention. A long mutual deep kiss can often develop a satisfying rhythm of its own and if you feel you are inexperienced or could improve your technique, follow someone else's lead. However, there are men who don't like to kiss. It might betray an existing relationship or face them with the reality that they might be gay. Alternatively, they could have appalling bad breath and are just being considerate. You'll probably never know.


Noise and Nipples
For many of us, it's essential to make noise when we're having sex. Grunts, groans and whimpers are all part of a primal language which communicates effort... enjoyment... pain... and more... It's a fantastic stress-reliever and we should never leave home without it! Granted, some of the noises might warrant a knock on the door from a jealous flatmate or a call to the police, but who cares? Talking dirty, however, is in class of its own. Remember that such classics as 'fuck me baby', 'get that ass' and 'pussy boy' can either electrify the moment or kill it in its tracks. Of course there are those of us who don't make a noise at all. You know who you are. You say things like 'Shusssh!' or 'Keep quiet!' or use pillows when we're about to shoot our load. You don't make so much as a whimper as you thrash around the bed or leap majestically in and out of the sling - but you make us ask questions like 'Have you cum yet?'



Nipples

Nipples are one of our erogenous zones and contain many additional nerve endings. When stimulated they can be very sensitive and become hard and erect as the body provides them with additional blood.

Tit play ranges from licking, sucking, and rubbing to pulling, pinching and biting. With repeated attention nipples often become increasingly responsive, give greater pleasure and increase in size. Unless you've been given instructions, start off slowly to find out whether your guy likes it. Moans and whimpering usually indicate you're on to a good thing. If not, it does no harm to ask him how he likes it. While moderate tit play is a real turn-on for many of us, a surprising number of guys (a) just assume it's what other guys want, (b) start playing - aggressively, and (c) don't think about how they're doing or how they're doing it. If you've got a guy clamped to your tit, ask him to slow down and tell him how you like it. If he won't give up: push him off, they're not radio buttons.

Some guys have their nipples pierced with rings or bars, which can increase sensitivity or be purely decorative. They have been known to be swallowed by eager partners but they usually pass through the digestive system without any problems and a reassuring clunk 12 hours later. If you have any concerns - get yourself to an accident and emergency department. If you've got nothing better to do - buy a metal detector.

For some guys, the more attention their nipples receive the more they want and it can quite a revelation to discover how hard he wants you to play with them. More advanced play will include tit clamps, which pinch the nipples tightly, or stimulation with extremes of heat and cold. However, over a period of years, overuse often leaves nipples looking more like cow's udders rather than pert tits. You've been warned.






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