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73.Watersports, Pornography and Phone sex Waterspo
Watersports, Pornography and Phone sex Watersports,
also known as golden showers involves pissing on one another or drinking someone else's piss. It also has the added advantage that you can usually piss more often than you can cum. Piss on unbroken skin does not pose a risk but pissing into the eyes, in the mouth or up the arse can pose risks of hepatitis and gonorrhoea if they are present. Drinking large quantities of beer or water will make piss more plentiful and will reduce the aroma. Piss can carry a strong smell and becomes ammonia-like if it's left to stand. High protein diets make it more acid, vegetables increase alkalinity, and eating asapargus makes piss particularly acrid and unpleasant. If you don't clean a designated area regularly and properly it will start to smell really unpleasant as it reacts with common household bacteria in carpets or porous floor coverings.

Points to remember


You may wish to cover the bed or designated area with a rubber or water proof sheet.
It is worth giving some thought where you do it and where you might be later (in a car or on a bus for example).
Before you start, cover open cuts and sores with a waterproof plaster.
Keeping your eyes closed and not taking it in the eyes or up the arse will significantly reduce risks from sexually transmitted infections.

Pornography

Porn gives us a safe, fun opportunity to get turned on and explore our sexual fantasies. There are many forms of porn: magazines, videos and written stories and, more recently, the internet and websites. It has been video porn, particularly, which has introduced us to live-action sex from which we can learn and improve our own techniques. However, we should make allowances for grim story lines, a disproportionately large number of over-sized dicks and seamless action which is a far cry from the reality of what we actually do. Today, video cameras allow us to create our own porn videos and can transmit live action across the internet. If you own porn or are thinking about starting a collection, remember:


Magazines are for men over 18 years old.
It may be appropriate to put any away porn when family visits which can mean pictures, videos, magazines, photographs and books which are easy to forget.
If you have a camera connected to your computer (and left on) it can be activated without you knowing.
Taking porn through customs is not advisable. If you're caught, it's usually confiscated.
Be careful what you acquire - particularly off the internet. Some imagery, eg extreme SM scenes and child pornography can lead to prosecution and jail sentences.
Think carefully whether you want to be included in a porn video whether it's for cash or through a sexual encounter. If you're in doubt, don't do it - or discuss it first with a friend (who will most likely disapprove).

Telephone sex

Telephone sex usually means wanking off while talking or listening to someone on the phone. For a time at least it became very popular as the ultimate safe sex but today, while it still has a niche, needs and technology have moved on. The numbers in the gay papers will usually put you through to a chat line or recorded story. While they offer uninterrupted wank potential their cost can be prohibitive and will be recorded on your telephone bill.


Sadomasochism Some guys might be horrified if they thought they were into SM but if you have enjoyed nipple play, squeezing or tugging balls, spanking and giving/carrying out orders the likelihood is that you have already been there.

Most of us have imagined or fantasised about bondage, or other situations involving some level of dominance and submission. SM is about exploring and realising those fantasies in a safe, sane, consensual and fun way. Not all SM is overtly sexual although, for many, it is an integral part of sexual enjoyment and lovemaking. Traditionalists will probably say that pure SM is sexual excitement and enjoyment caused by inflicting or being subjected to pain. While accepting this view, sadomasochism is much broader and includes dominant and submissive role-playing, bondage and physical restraint, humiliation, verbal abuse and punishment. In some cases, these practices don't involve pain, but what they all share is the exchange of power between partners. Sometimes this is dramatic, at other times it can be more subtle, but the degree to which power is exchanged is not impotant so long as the experience is consensual and enjoyed. It is also said that SM practices involving pain heighten a sexual experience through the release of endorphins in the body. Many men say this experience is far more intense than that of 'vanilla' (non SM) sex. Punishment, torture, bondage, and humiliation are the most common SM practices, although they often they overlap.

Before you get into activities with an obvious potential for harm, such as whipping, torture, heavy restraints, learn what you're doing first. If you're interested in SM and don't know where to start, SM Gays is a non-profit making social and educational group for gay men interested in consensual sexual sadomasochism. Run by volunteers its aim is to encourage safe and lawful SM practices through sharing of information among peple with similar interests. Amongst its activities, it holds events in Central London, produces resources and information sheets and runs courses to introduce people to safe consensual SM. They can be reached by post at SM Gays, BM SM Gays, London, WC1N 3XX or through the internet at www.smgays.org (their website is excellent), email info@smgays.org.

SM Roles and experimentation Depending on the scenario or type of SM relationship, the active or dominant partner is usually known as the top or master while the passive or submissive partner is known as the bottom or slave. Some men have a preference, others will swap roles while others will only take on one. Generally men adopt these only during sex but, occasionally, two men may form a relationship in which they have taken the decision to stay in these roles. For the purposes of this section and simplicity the dominant partner is referred to as the 'top' and the submissive partner as the 'bottom'. The key ingredient of SM is the contrasting roles of a top and the bottom. Here are a few examples:

Being the bottom Being the top
Being spanked Spanking him
Being tied up Tying him up
Having your nipples squeezed Squeezing his nipples
Being fisted Fisting him
Being pissed on Pissing on him
Being a naughty schoolboy Being the schoolmaster
Being verbally abused Verbally abusing him
Carrying out orders Giving orders or instructions
Being the patient Being the doctor
Passwords

Guys usually agree to use a password which, when spoken, says stop and means stop. It may seem like stating the obvious but don't choose words like 'stop'. Often, during sex, we can say 'stop' when we're really saying 'slow down' or 'go on'. Ideally, passwords should be simple and non-sexual, eg: apple, rainbow, or Ann Widdecombe.

Experimentation

If you and another inexperienced man want to experiment with SM , go ahead. Just use some common sense. You can wrestle and spank each other to your heart's content and not get hurt. You can tie your partner down and wank him off. You can administer light pain with tit clamps or clothes pegs. Just remember that the pain that seems erotic before orgasm will feel like ordinary pain again afterward. Be ready to remove clamps and uncomfortable restraints quickly.


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