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MY SAY

REALITY

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DID IT EVER MATTERS

COUNTLESS TIMES INDIVIDUALS WANT TO HOLD ON TO A LOVE THAT IS NOT HEALTHY BECAUSE OF THE MANY YEARS INVESTED IN IT.THEY SAY THINGS LIKE ''WE'VE BEEN TOGETHER FOR 100YRS & WHY MUST YOU LEAVE ME NOW''WHILE THEY KNEW THAT THEY COULD HAVE LEFT LONG TIME AGO,WHY STAYED SO LONG?

WAITING FOR JESUS TO COME & KNOCK SOME BRAINS INTO THAT THICK SKUL OF YOURS?FUCK THAT.EVERY BODY MUST USE THEIR MIND TO MAKE IT THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIMES IN LIFE.WAKE UP IN THAT UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP & START LIVING AGAIN.

STOP CRYING YOUR SHIT OUT & WEARING THAT CHUBBY LOOK ON YOUR FACE.SOME TIMES YOU FIND THAT PEOPLE STAY IN A BAD RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE IT LOOK GOOD THAN THE OUTSIDE WORLD.ITS BECAUSE THEY ARE STUPID,DULL/WHAT?& UNSURE OF WHAT LIFE WOULD BE LIKE WITHOUT THE SO CALLED THEIR MATE.HOW EVER,IN THEIR HEARTS.THEY LONG TO EXPERIENCE A TRULY FULFILLING LOVE,CARING & HONEST RELATIONSHIP.

YOU CAN HOLD ON TO AN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP FOR MANY YEARS BEFORE YOU REALIZE THAT IT WAS NOT EVEN WORTH IT TO HANG ON ANY LONGER,WE ALL KNEW THAT THE 1ST YEARS ARE ALL GOOD,SWEET & MEMORABLE ALWAYS.BUT THERE AFTER THE REST IS ON,OFF,UP & DOWN.& ALWAYS FILLED WITH DISRESPECT,DISHONESTY & EMOTIONAL ABUSE.YOU CAN HOLD ON THINKING THAT YOU HAD SOME THINGS IN COMMON LIEYING TO YOURSELF.& YOU THOUGHT IT WAS ENOUGH TO MAKE A BETTER FUTURE FOR BOTH OF YOU,YOU HONESTY BELIEVED YOU HAD THE STRONGEST LOVE EVER.

& YOU WOULD GET MARRIED 1 DAY & HAVE A WONDERFUL FAMILY LIVE TOGETHER FOR 200YRS JUST LIKE YOUR PARENTS DID.BUT ONCE YOU EXPERIENCE THAT REAL LOVE.YOU WOULD REALIZED THAT YOU HAVE HELD ON TO AN EMPTY DREAM FOR LONG ENOUGH & WASTED SO MUCH TIME TRYING TO MIX WATER WITH OIL SO THAT IT BE 1 ITEM.THE TERM ''UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP'' IS THROWN AROUND SO FREELY BY SO MANY PEOPLE.BY THAT I FEEL SO COMPELLED TO EXPLAIN WHAT I MEAN BY THIS!I MEAN CONSISTANT DISTRUCTIVE,ABUSIVE,DISRESPECTFUL,UNSOPPORTIVE,UNCARING & DEMORALIZING BEHAVIOR.

I MEAN THE KIND OF DEED THAT MAKE YOU FEEL APPREHENSIVE ABOUT HAVING YOUR PARTNER AROUND YOUR FRIENDS/FAMILY.I MEAN CONSTANT WITHDRAWAL,ABANDONMENT,LOVELESS ACTIONS & RESPONSES.WHAT HAPPEN IN UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP IS NOT TO BE CONFUSED WITH THE CONSTANT MINOR ANNOYANCES WITH A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP.

NOR THE BRIEF PHASES THROUGH WHICH THE PARTNERS GO WITH WHICH PUT DISTANCE BETWEEN THEM.THIS ARE ASPECTS OF LOVE THAT DO CAUSE MINOR HURT & AGGRAVATION.BUT MY NOT WARRANT LEAVING A GRATIFYING RELATIONSHIP,WE MAY NOT LIKE/EVEN ADMIT IT.BUT LOVE CAN HURT/KILL ANY1 ANY TIME,ANYWHERE.WE ARE IMPERFECT HUMAN BEINGS.SO WE TEND TO HAVE PERSONALITY ISSUES WHICH PEOPLE BRING INTO THE RELATIONSHIP WHICH WE HAVE WITH THE OTHER IMPERFECT HUMAN BEINGS IN THE PAST.THIS OFTEN RESULTS IN A MINOR BICKERING.

,POWER STRUGLE & HURT FEELINGS,HOW EVER,MATURE HUMAN BEINGS WHO SEE VALUE IN THEIR RELATIONSHIP TALK OVER THIS PROBLEMS & EVENTUALLY WORK THEM OUT RIGHT AWAY.THEY USUALLY GROW CLOSER & DEVELOPE A KEEN SENSE OF UNDERSTANDING PEOPLE WHO DO THIS OTHER STUPID/SILLY THINGS THAT ARE WORTH NOTHING TO THEM.

BUT THERE IS ALWAYS A DIFFERENCE BETWEEN A HEALTHY & UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH NORMAL HUMAN CLASHING,IF YOU ARE NOT SURE OF THE KIND OF A RELATIONSHIP THAT YOU ARE IN,YOU SHOULD EVALUATE IT.ASK YOURSELF IF YOU ARE SUPPORTED IN THAT RELATIONSHIP EVEN WHEN YOU ARE SILLY,

SAD,ANGRY,UNHAPPY & INSECURE.DO YOU FEEL FREE TO BE YOURSELF AROUND YOUR PARTNER?DONT BE AFRAID TO MOVE ON.SINCE ITS YOUR LIFE TO LIVE & YOUR LOVE TO SHARE.DONT EVER TRY TO CHANGE SOME 1,

'CAUSE THAT WILL BUT YOUR LIFE ON HOLD & ONLY DRAIN ALL YOUR EFFORTS OVER NOTHING.MAKE YOU BITTER & DEGRADE YOU.SOME 1 BETTER IS OUT THERE.


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